Harry Rilling
Harry Rilling | |
|---|---|
.jpg) Rilling in 2021 | |
| 40th Mayor of Norwalk, Connecticut | |
| In office 2013 – January 2, 2026 | |
| Preceded by | Richard A. Moccia |
| Succeeded by | Barbara Smyth |
| Personal details | |
| Born | Harry W. Rilling August 6, 1947 Norwalk, Connecticut, U.S. |
| Party | Democratic |
| Spouse(s) |
Cheryl A. Cocco
(m. 1969; div. 1993)Wanda J. Crespo
(m. 2001)Lucia C. Medower
(m. 2013) |
| Children | 3 |
| Residence(s) | Norwalk, Connecticut |
| Education | Norwalk High School |
| Alma mater | Iona College (B.S., Criminal Justice, 1989), University of New Haven (Masters in Public Administration, 1991) [1] |
Harry W. Rilling[2] (born August 6, 1947) is an American politician who previously served as mayor of Norwalk, Connecticut. He had previously served as Norwalk's police chief for 17 years before retiring. He is a Democrat, and was elected in 2013. Rilling defeated incumbent mayor Richard A. Moccia.[3] On March 3, 2025, Rilling announced that he would not be seeking re-election and was succeeded by fellow Democrat Barbara Smyth.[4][5]
Early life and education
Rilling was born in Norwalk, Connecticut, on August 6, 1947, to Harry S. and Mary L. Rilling. He spent his early childhood partially in New Canaan, but was primarily raised in Norwalk. His father was a greenhouse worker while his mother was a homemaker.[6] He has an elder brother and sister. Rilling graduated from Norwalk High School in 1965.
He has a Bachelor of Science in criminal justice, summa cum laude, from Iona College, and a Master in Public Administration from the University of New Haven. He is a graduate of the FBI Executive Development Course.
Career
He enlisted in the United States Navy in 1967, and was honorably discharged in 1971 with the rank of E-5. He joined the Norwalk Police Department in 1971 and rose to the rank of chief in 1995, a position he held until his retirement in 2012. He served on the Norwalk Zoning Commission from 2012 until his election as mayor in 2013. From 1996 to 2004, Rilling was an adjunct professor of criminal justice at Norwalk Community College.
Rilling was an on-site assessor and team leader with the Commission on Accreditation for Law Enforcement Agencies (CALEA); he is a past chairman of the Mid-Fairfield Substance Abuse Coalition (MFSAC); past president of both the Fairfield County Chiefs of Police Association (FCCP) and the Connecticut Police Chiefs Association (CPCA); he is a Life member of the International Association of Chiefs of Police (IACP); and he is a board member of the National Committee on Narcotics and Dangerous Drugs (a committee of the Drug Enforcement Administration). Rilling served as Norwalk's Police Union president in 1976.[7]
On March 3, 2025, Rilling announced that he would not seek a seventh term in that year's election.[8]
Personal life
Rilling was married three times. He first married Cheryl A. Cocco on January 4, 1969[9] with whom he had three children, and divorced in 1993.[10] On October 30, 2001, he married Wanda J. Crespo.[11] Rilling married his third wife Lucia C. Medower (b. 1963) in November 2013.[12] He has three children from his first marriage.
His daughter, Christine Limone (née Rilling), a former day care operator, has been charged in the death of a toddler in her care in 2020. She has been offered a plea deal by state prosecutors.[13][14][15] His son, Stephen Rilling, a former Fairfield Police detective has been arrested and charged in a narcotics arrest.[16][17]
Electoral history
| Party | Candidate | Votes | % | ±% | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Democratic | Harry Rilling | 8,639 | 52.3% | +8.7 | |
| Working Families | Harry Rilling | 367 | 2.2% | −1.3 | |
| Total | Harry Rilling | 9,006 | 54.5% | ||
| Republican | Richard Moccia | 7,514 | 45.5% | −7.4 | |
| Total votes | 16,520 | 100% | |||
| Democratic gain from Republican | |||||
| Party | Candidate | Votes | % | ±% | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Democratic | Harry Rilling | 8,052 | 60.7% | +8.4 | |
| Working Families | Harry Rilling | 321 | 2.4% | +0.2 | |
| Total | Harry Rilling | 8,373 | 63.1% | ||
| Republican | Kelly L. Straniti | 4,896 | 36.9% | −8.6 | |
| Total votes | 13,269 | 100% | |||
| Democratic hold | |||||
| Party | Candidate | Votes | % | ±% | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Democratic | Harry Rilling | 7,627 | 53.3% | −7.4 | |
| Working Families | Harry Rilling | 307 | 2.1% | −0.3 | |
| Total | Harry Rilling | 7,934 | 55.4% | ||
| Independent | Lisa M. Brinton | 3,264 | 22.8% | ||
| Republican | Andrew T. Conroy | 2,201 | 15.4% | −21.5 | |
| Independent | Bruce V. Morris | 915 | 6.4% | ||
| Total votes | 14,314 | 100% | |||
| Democratic hold | |||||
| Party | Candidate | Votes | % | ±% | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Democratic | Harry Rilling | 8,397 | 53.1% | −0.2 | |
| Working Families | Harry Rilling | 385 | 2.4% | +0.3 | |
| Total | Harry Rilling | 8,782 | 55.5% | ||
| Republican | Lisa M. Brinton | 7,047 | 44.5% | +29.1 | |
| Total votes | 15,829 | 100% | |||
| Democratic hold | |||||
| Party | Candidate | Votes | % | ±% | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Democratic | Harry Rilling | 8,665 | 60.9% | +7.8 | |
| Working Families | Harry Rilling | 387 | 2.7% | +0.3 | |
| Total | Harry Rilling | 9,052 | 63.6% | ||
| Republican | Jonathan Riddle | 5,180 | 36.4% | −8.1 | |
| Total votes | 14,232 | 100% | |||
| Democratic hold | |||||
| Party | Candidate | Votes | % | ±% | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Democratic | Harry Rilling | 8,026 | 53.1% | −7.8 | |
| Working Families | Harry Rilling | 358 | 2.4% | −0.3 | |
| Total | Harry Rilling | 8,384 | 55.5% | ||
| Republican | Vincent Scicchitano | 6,735 | 44.6% | +8.2 | |
| Total votes | 15,119 | 100% | |||
| Democratic hold | |||||
References
- ^ rillingformayor.com
- ^ United States Public Records, 1970-2009
- ^ "Norwalk Citizen Online". Archived from the original on 2013-12-02. Retrieved 2013-11-06.
- ^ "Norwalk Mayor Harry Rilling Announces He Won't Seek Reelection". Norwalk. CivicPlus. Retrieved 19 December 2025.
- ^ Gaydos, Isabella (2026-01-02). "Norwalk Mayor Barbara Smyth sworn in during inauguration ceremony". News12 Connecticut. Retrieved 2026-02-05.
- ^ United States Census, 1950
- ^ Norwalk, CT Official Website
- ^ Ozanic, Kalleen Rose. "Norwalk Mayor Harry Rilling announces he will not run for reelection in November". The Hour. Retrieved 5 November 2025.
- ^ Connecticut Marriage Index, 1959-2001
- ^ Connecticut Divorce Index, 1968-1997
- ^ Connecticut Marriage Index
- ^ Koch, Robert (2014-12-10). "Mayor Rilling married in November, official ceremony expected in January". The Hour. Archived from the original on 2023-02-24. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
- ^ "Daughter of Norwalk mayor arrested on 5 counts of injury to a child". News 12 - Connecticut. May 21, 2020. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
- ^ Tomlinson, Pat (2021-08-10). "Former Norwalk day care owner offered plea deal in infant death case". StamfordAdvocate. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
- ^ "Norwalk Day Care Owner Was Emailing When Child Died: Report". Norwalk, CT Patch. 2020-06-02. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
- ^ Tepfer, Daniel (2020-03-13). "Fairfield agrees to pay settlement to Rilling". Connecticut Post. Archived from the original on 2023-02-24. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
- ^ Tepfer, Daniel (2018-03-26). "Former police detective pleads guilty to drug counts". Connecticut Post. Retrieved 2023-02-24.
- ^ "Prescribed Form for Return of Votes Cast at a Municipal Election" (PDF). State of Connecticut Office of the Secretary of State.
- ^ "Prescribed Form for Return of Votes Cast at a Municipal Election" (PDF). State of Connecticut Office of the Secretary of State.
- ^ "State of Connecticut Elections Database » 2017 Nov 7 :: Municipal Election :: Mayor :: City/Town of Norwalk". State of Connecticut Elections Database.
- ^ "State of Connecticut Elections Database » 2019 Nov 5 :: Municipal Election :: Mayor :: City/Town of Norwalk". State of Connecticut Elections Database.
- ^ "State of Connecticut Elections Database » 2021 Nov 2 :: Municipal Election :: Mayor :: City/Town of Norwalk". State of Connecticut Elections Database.
- ^ "State of Connecticut Elections Database » 2023 Nov 7 :: General Election :: Mayor :: City/Town of Norwalk". State of Connecticut Elections Database.